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Being a student intern at Soberman’s Estate has been one of the greatest experiences of my academic and personal journey.  From the first time I stepped onto the property and was greeted by our amazing CRC team, I instantly was welcomed into the supportive environment this is. I was surrounded by beautiful desert views and the gentle rhythm of horses grazing nearby, reemphasizing how special of a place this truly is. What I didn’t realize at that moment was how much I would end up learning. I didn’t only learn about addiction recovery, but how to approach my own practice with empathy, resilience, and the power of human connection. 

At Soberman’s Estate, we believe in celebrating the strength, dedication, and quiet leadership of the men whose presence enriches our lives — whether they’re fathers, brothers, mentors, colleagues, friends, or simply the steady hand behind the scenes. 

There’s a moment in sobriety when something shifts. 

Addiction is often viewed as a personal battle. But the truth is, addiction is a family disease. It affects everyone involved, from partners to children. The roles that family members take on during addiction can either help or hurt the recovery process. Understanding these family dynamics is crucial for long-term healing.

Addiction is a chronic, multifaceted disease that profoundly affects mental, emotional, and physical health. Overcoming it requires more than just willpower—it demands precise clinical knowledge and experience. Addiction specialists are licensed experts trained specifically in addiction medicine and behavioral health.

“I don’t know who I am anymore.”
It’s easy to think of grief only in terms of losing someone else. But what happens when the loss is... you?

For many men, emotional intimacy is one of life’s most confusing and elusive experiences. We crave deep connection—whether with a spouse, partner, a child, a brother, or a friend—but somewhere along the way, we learn to guard our emotions, avoid vulnerability, and numb discomfort. For those struggling with addiction, substances can become a stand-in for connection: a way to feel something—or nothing—without the risk of being seen.