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Every day that I am at Soberman’s Estate, I get to work with these incredible men who seem to have it all together on the outside, yet they are quietly unraveling on the inside.

Addiction impacts every part of a man’s being—mind, body, spirit, and relationships. Every man who walks through the gates of Soberman’s Estate carries a unique story—of struggle, strength, trauma, and triumph. Our program is intentionally designed to support whole-person recovery  through a diverse mix of traditional, clinical, and holistic treatment modalities that speak to the deeper parts of a man’s story. 

Sobriety brings with it many gifts: clarity, renewed relationships, and the chance to rebuild a life you may have thought was lost. But it also brings reality into sharper focus, and one of the biggest stressors that often surfaces for men in recovery is money.

Recovery is not just about getting sober—it’s about building a life worth celebrating. One of the most common things I hear from men in sobriety is, “I haven’t done enough to celebrate”, or “ I only have one month sober”. But here’s the truth: if you’re showing up, if you’re trying, if you’re taking even one step toward a better life—you’re already doing more than enough. 

We’re so proud and excited to announce that Starting August 4, 2025, Soberman’s Estate began offering something we’ve wanted for a long time—24/7 Registered Nursing Coverage. This commitment ensures that medical support is always available—day or night—providing immediate attention, peace of mind, and an added layer of safety throughout every stage of the recovery journey.

“I don’t know who I am anymore.”
It’s easy to think of grief only in terms of losing someone else. But what happens when the loss is... you?

Let’s be honest. 
When you hear the word wellness, what comes to mind? 

How to Deal with the Fear of Judgment: Normalizing the Fear of What Others Think

We often think that transformation in sobriety requires major breakthroughs or life-altering events. 

For many men in recovery, being alone can feel like dangerous territory. In the grip of addiction, isolation often becomes the norm—cutting off connection, hiding from shame, avoiding vulnerability. But there’s a powerful, healing counterpart to isolation that’s often misunderstood: solitude.